Monday, December 8, 2008

How To Clarify Your Wishes And Dream.

You need to be clear about what you want in your life. Make sure you know what your goals, dreams and aspirations are - all the Universe needs is clarity, and it will help you achieve success.

When starting a journey, you need to know where you are going. If not, you'll just end up wandering around aimlessly, getting lost. You'll never get anywhere if you don't know where it is you are going.

Creating clear objectives is like identifying your destination and is a key element in achieving your goals. But your motivations have to be right too.

Common things we might want in life include more money, a better job, and even to be a nicer person. But these are not places that we can travel to on our journey. They are just general areas, like counties or states - not towns and villages. We need to be more precise about what we are asking for.

These are common wishes and dreams:

More Money

Even apparently wealthy people wish for this. The amount of money you need is always equal to or less than the amount of money you spend. It's possible to get all the money you need -- but you have to be very precise about how much and what for.

More Love

Most of us crave a warm and loving relationship and many of us have someone in mind. However, that "someone" might not have the same feelings for us as we do for them. It might be a wish of ours that they develop these feelings for us.

With desires of this kind it is always better to concentrate on yourself, rather than the other person. For example, if you wanted a spell cast, it might be better to cast a spell on yourself to be more loved, rather than cast a spell on them to love you more.

A Better Job

Your job might be dirty, tiring, physically demanding, dangerous or not challenging. It might be the commuting, or the fact that you are away from your family more than you would like. It might also be the people you work with.

If you are clear about your motivations then you can be clear about what you want. Start at your ideal job situation -- then stop. That is what you want. It might not mean changing jobs at all.

Remember that you might never be an astronaut, or a Supermodel.

More Friends

Being well liked popular is a need within us all. The motivation is clear.

Again, you will need to concentrate on yourself rather than others. The source of popularity is within you, and you have the power to achieve this more easily than you think.

Being a Nicer Person

This is not the commonest desire that people have, but it is the easiest to achieve, and better than that - having achieved it, all your other wishes and dreams will rush to you like a flood!

Being clear, honest and true about what you want in life is difficult. We make assumptions about what will make us happy. We take these lessons from the media mostly, but also from those around us. We assume that things that make others happy will make us happy too.

People rarely sit back and consider what they themselves really want in their life. Part of the reason for this is because they are afraid. They fear many things. They are afraid that they won't ever get what they want, they fear that if they get it, it won't make them happy.

Don't be afraid, but be careful what you wish for!

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